I read the earlier post where the wife was annoyed that her husband masturbates to porn even though they have a great sex life. I am suspicious still sometimes but am trying to trust him. Last thursday he took an extra 7 or so mins in the shower. I told him how i feel and asked if he wanted an open marriage but he said no. This is really interesting Remarks containing abusive and obscene language, personal attacks of any kind or promotion will be removed and the user banned.
One of the problems you share with other women in these situations: Well, the day after we returned, he resorted to his ugly behavior toward me but not cheating on me that I could find. He also has a laptop, that has a lock on it!!! I don't know what kind of frequency is common amongst couples, but having an intimate moment with my wife 3 times a week seems satisfying. But you ought to tell your wife and accept whatever fallout your revelation brings. Asked him if I should be masturbating instead of going to him.
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If i was with a man who told me that me masturbating was like me cheating on him then i'd say he was either naive or selfish or both. Although there are many products available in the market claiming to be safe and effective but not all are trustworthy, only products with all herbal ingredients and having right herbs which are capable and trusted to cure the problem shall be used. The second wedding the invitation only has his name on it. It didn't help; she still complains of bad sleep. He apologized and promised he wouldn't betray me again, one being looking at porn to masturbate. For you men out there who were willing or capable of control at levels from self-regulation to self-castration - bully for you!
Sad, confused and wanting to work through this! I believe we, as humans, are here on purpose and for a purpose. I thought this was a new beginning. I am really lucky if we have sex twice a month. He quickly threw in that he wasn't like that guy and hadn't done it since.